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Too much of me..too much to stay!

by Omoyemi Akinwande Relationship

There’s a story many of us carry quietly — the story of loving too much, giving too much, staying too long. Maybe you’re living it right now.

You poured your heart into the relationship. You showed up when it was hard, stayed when it hurt, and hoped when hope felt thin. But somehow, your love alone couldn’t fill the growing distance.

and some would even say She walked away from what looked like a “good marriage” on the outside, not knowing the emotional starvation she felt on the inside. But in the silence of her new space, she heard something she hadn’t in a long time: God saying, “I see you. I’ve always seen you.” 
 

For the Woman Reading This…

If you feel like you’re burning alone in your relationship — this is your reminder:

You are not cold.
You are not too much.
You are not asking for the impossible.

You are worthy of love that doesn’t drain you just to feel seen.
You deserve a flame that warms you, not one that consumes you.

And if you’re still there — still holding on — may this not be your ending, but your awakening.

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Relationship

If His Eyes Stay Dry, Your Heart Might Break

by Omoyemi Akinwande Relationship

Let’s be honest: vulnerability is not just attractive — it’s necessary. Even the son of man wept!! Somewhere along the way, men were sold a lie — that silence is power, that numbness is noble, and that real strength means locking emotion behind steel doors and throwing away the key. Now we’re left with a generation of men who call it control, but it’s just emotional starvation.

Ladies, hear this loud and clear: if a man has never cried — not even once in his life — RUN.

Yes, literally. Lace up those sneakers. That is not just a red flag. That’s a blazing emotional fire hazard

So, if he’s never cried — not even at a funeral, not during heartbreak, not at the birth of his child, not in the silence of personal failure or private grief — then something’s off. Something’s buried. Don’t harden yourself just to match a man who refuses to feel. Your tenderness is a gift, not a liability. Save it for someone who knows how to meet you in it — not run from it.

If he’s never cried — trust me, it’s not you, it’s him.

And sis… run.

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Health & LifestyleRelationship

Global Positioning System (GPS)

by Omoyemi Akinwande Health & LifestyleRelationship Omoyemi Omoyemiakinwande

Have you ever been in a situation where your GPS went offline and you didn’t have any offline capabilities, and you are right on a highway with multiple exits, unsure which way to go?

The childless are seeking children, the bankrupt- a bounce back, the homeless ones -shelter, and the poor are seeking a decent meal. But right after one’s primary needs are met, the next layer of problems emerges, and then the next.

This cycle repeats from one individual to another, year after year, and decade after decade for thousands of years.

Now, these problems have become full-blown and have grown into the size of world pandemics, tsunamis, and other crises.

Fear has become real and global, and the value of life and existentialism are being normalized. Innocents are dying while the guilty walk blameless. It is almost as if the joy of living is being stolen away gradually, unbeknownst to us because we persevere. Where exactly are we going? What is the direction of safety and security?

Is it Digital Transformation and Emerging technologies? The rapid pace of technological advancement is driving digital transformation across all industries, from healthcare to retail, communication, and beyond. It’s true, but by 2050, what population of unborn youth will become jobless? What are the plans for them, and what contingencies are in place if those plans fail?

Climate Change is a continuous threat to our planet, and it’s becoming increasingly urgent to mitigate its impact by focusing on sustainable agriculture, green technology, and transportation. But are these the lasting solutions for centuries to come? Indeed, lives come in pairs!

This is just to spark some thoughts within you and initiate dialogue about the future, the role we all play as individuals, communities, and governments to shape it, and share my perspective on the trajectory of our world, encouraging everyone to stay woke!

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