Let’s be honest: vulnerability is not just attractive — it’s necessary. Even the son of man wept!! Somewhere along the way, men were sold a lie — that silence is power, that numbness is noble, and that real strength means locking emotion behind steel doors and throwing away the key. Now we’re left with a generation of men who call it control, but it’s just emotional starvation.
Ladies, hear this loud and clear: if a man has never cried — not even once in his life — RUN.
Yes, literally. Lace up those sneakers. That is not just a red flag. That’s a blazing emotional fire hazard
So, if he’s never cried — not even at a funeral, not during heartbreak, not at the birth of his child, not in the silence of personal failure or private grief — then something’s off. Something’s buried. Don’t harden yourself just to match a man who refuses to feel. Your tenderness is a gift, not a liability. Save it for someone who knows how to meet you in it — not run from it.
If he’s never cried — trust me, it’s not you, it’s him.
And sis… run.
